Just A Conversation
I had a pretty ‘interesting’ conversation with a friend whom I hadn’t been keeping in touch with since I left uni.
Friend: You don’t have nice things to say about me.
Ade: It’s not like you have nice things to say about me either.
Friend: I do…
Ade: Yeah, like what? *sarcastic*
Friend: You are a nice girl (just a little mean sometimes), catholic and have no bad habits.
Ade: I didn’t know you can be this sweet! *sarcastically surprised*
Friend: These are not the nicest yet. I’m saving them.
Ade: Saving it for?
Friend: When I need it.
Ade: Gutted. Speechless.
Not quite speechless. I was very tempted to say, "Are you saving it when you get your hands in my pants?" (Yeah, I know this doesn’t sound like me… but men are pigs, most of them are!)
Before we got to that ‘interesting’ bit of conversation, we were talking about random ’stuff’ (read: Do you have a boyfriend? Why not? I’m sure you have plenty offers…)
My replies:
Nope. No boyfriend. I’m pretty happy with current state. Yes, there were offers but I wouldn’t call them great offers…)
Somehow, we came into a conclusion… men these days (before you can call me a femenist, I shall say, MOST men these days, will not date a girl who won’t want to let his hands get into you-know-where)
So yeah, I am a nice girl (just a little mean) and I am pretty happily single and yes; I think guys, most guys have ulterior motives and have low or no patience.
Call me defensive or whatever. That’s just how it goes… for now. Until someone changes my mind, someday, somehow.
July 18th, 2007 at 11:31 pm
Not all men are like that Adeline. I think you just haven’t met the right one yet
July 19th, 2007 at 12:54 am
All men have desires. It is a natural part of being a male human being. If you are pretty or sexually appealing, guys will want to have sex with you.
But whether he does is a totally different matter, and I think that’s what differentiates a “good” guy from a “bad” guy.
My take is that a good guy has principles and a strong belief in God. I am a Catholic by the way, and I am a big believer that people should remain celibate until marriage.
July 19th, 2007 at 1:38 am
Yes Mark, not all men… that’s why I said MOST men
Yea, haven’t met the right one. As cliche as it might sound… I wouldn’t stay single if I found him, would I?
July 19th, 2007 at 1:45 am
Hi Epep,
Agree with what you said.
Unfortunately, there seems to have more “bad” guys than “good” guys these days… or maybe I am blind!
Wow, I’m surprised to know that there are still big believer on celibacy. *Thumbs up*
I am not trying to paint a good little virgin image here. It’s just that I am not into jumping into bed with guys before I am sure about it. Hence, guys call me prissy. How very unfair!
But thanks, for dropping by my blog.